Soon afterward I found another parking steal—Enoch's Garage for $40 a month. It was an odd place run by Father Divine followers. I remember a sign on the wall listing various rules, including, “No excessive talking with people of the opposite sex.” It was good while it lasted, but still a hike to my office, and the garage closed at 11 p.m. One time I arrived just after “curfew” and the doors were locked. Thankfully, someone was there to let me in, but it was too risky for happy hours. Plus, I didn't want my tires slashed if they caught me flirting.
During that job, I remember making peanut shells after taxes—I don't know how I survived. Oh yeah, my cheapness! I'd sneak a brown bag out to restaurants so I could order a side salad and still be social. Or, I'd get a $3 pint (boss gave the nod) and $2.75 cheese fries at The Irish Pub. A fulfilling lunch and kind to the wallet.
You could possibly credit (blame?) college for polishing my penny-pinching skills. Like many resourceful students, I survived just fine on the traditional menu of mac n' cheese, hot dogs, The Beast, an occasional pantry raid from home and, of course, the acclaimed Ramen noodles--getting my lifetime supply of sodium in just five lunches.
But the truth is, I was thrifty long before dorm life and all-nighters. As a tween, my grandma would treat us to a fancy dinner every year when she was up for the holidays. All I could think was, “How about cash instead of this overpriced chicken? I could eat Salisbury steak at home with Gilligan and the Skipper, and score $20 for a new Aigner belt.”
To this day, I still spend as much time ogling menu prices as I do the fare. I don't know how I got this way. Maybe it's so I could save on the little stuff to buy something expensive once in a while.
Since I was laid off in November, I've been embracing my frugality even more. But it's a challenge, especially when you hit the grocery store for muffins and spend $100. Who put all that crap in my cart anyway? Those damn grocery gnomes get you every time!
As much as I try to ignore the allure of catalogs and ads for things I'll never need like designer toilet paper holders, it's tough when you like to shop. It's a conflict I'm working on. In high school, I listed the following quote in the yearbook as my fave: “What's money for if you don't spend it?” Yet, the other day I pored through five cookbooks in search of a muffin recipe so I wouldn't have to fork over $5 at the market. (As you can see from the above, that didn't work out.)
More recently, in efforts to be budget-savvy, I've started wondering if all this scrimping really matters. So what if we croak with less money under the mattress? As long as we don't swim in debt, how about I pay to have the mulch blasted around the yard, rather than lug the wheelbarrow to and fro for hours and hours?
Something in me resists, though. Right now, I'm painting the basement, a few strokes at a time when my mom is up to watch the kids. Yesterday, I stuffed my pockets with coupons for groceries, and earlier this week I bolted straight to the sale rack at the shoe store. Sixty bucks for toddler sneakers? I don't think so.
Meanwhile, I'm fantasizing about wallpaper for the stairwell, new bar stools, a bistro set for the deck, new tile—the list is as long as ... well, the ways that I am cheap.